BAPTISM

John the Baptist baptising Jesus

Baptism is the Christian sacrament in which water is sprinkled on to a person's forehead symbolizing purification or regeneration, and admission to the Christian Church. When this involves a young child, it usually includes the naming of the child, and is often then referred to as a christening.

adult BAPTISM

Seeing someone else baptized, deciding to have your own child baptized, or being asked to be a godparent, can make you think about your own journey of faith. If you were not baptized as a young child, you may be deciding now as an adult or teenager to make this commitment.
Whatever led you to this point, baptism marks the beginning of a journey with God which continues for the rest of our lives.
For adults and young people, baptism usually takes place shortly before, or at the same time, as confirmation. Confirmation is the service when those who have previously been baptized affirm those promises and are specially prayed for by a Bishop.
If you are considering being baptized, and would like more information, talk to the vicar who will be delighted to help.

BAPTISM for children

Your child is precious to you and precious to God. You want the very best for them, and so does God. You want them to make right choices in life, for themselves and for others.
Baptism is just the beginning of this and so much more.
Over the years to come, it’s a journey you’ll share together with your child by:

Being there for your child to talk to about the bigger questions of life – questions about hope, faith and love.
Praying for your child through the ups and downs of their faith journey.
Showing them practically how to make those good choices in life.
Helping them to learn more about their Christian faith, through their church and in other ways.

So it’s a commitment to start as you mean to go on.
The Church of England has a dedicated website full of material on christenings which you may find helpful: https://churchofenglandchristenings.org
On this page we provide just some of that information with occasional links to pages on that website.

what happens in a BAPTISM service?

A baptism will usually take place during a Sunday service.
If you are unsure of what baptism involves it will help to view this step-by-step guide to the service.

contacting the church

In the first instance you should make contact with your local parish church. If you are uncertain which that is, you can check via the 'A Church Near You' website.
Whether you’re exploring the possibility of a christening or whether you’ve already decided, the vicar will be delighted to hear from you to talk about it.
When you call the church, you may not be able to book a date straightaway, but someone will call back. You’ll meet the vicar with your child to talk through the service and to help answer any questions you may have.

Godparents ~ their role?

Godparents are some of the most important people at a christening. Their main roles are:-

To be there for the child to talk to about the bigger questions of life.
Praying for the child through the ups and downs of their faith journey
Showing them how to make good choices in life, for themselves and for others
Helping them to learn more about the Christian faith, through their church and in other ways.

choosing Godparents

Choosing the right people as godparents for your child is a big decision. Here are some key things which might help you decide:

Godparents will be people who’ll be in touch with your family for many years to come. They may be relatives or friends of the family.
They’ll be people who you know you can trust and who’ll be there for your child to talk about the bigger questions in life; questions about faith, hope and love.
They should feel ready to make some big promises about faith for your child in church.
Every child should have at least three godparents, two of the same sex and at least one of the opposite sex to your child. You can have more than three godparents if you wish.
Parents may be godparents for their own children, providing they have at least one other godparent.
Because of the very special role they have in supporting your child’s faith journey, godparents must be baptized themselves.

You can talk to the vicar about choosing godparents and involve them in the christening preparation too.
There is a helpful guide for godparents that you could refer them to at https://churchofenglandchristenings.org/godparents/

faqs

There is a page of Frequently Asked Questions that may assist you.

thanksgiving service

A special church service, different from a baptism, can be used as a way to say thank you to God for your child. It is called a Thanksgiving for the Gift of a Child and you can view a possible form of words for this service here.
You might consider this service instead of a baptism if you decide that now isn’t the right time to have your child baptized.
You might also choose this service when your baby is just born, or if you have adopted a child into your family and you simply want to celebrate this with special words said by a vicar in church.
Whatever the reason, the vicar will be delighted to talk to you about this service.